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Anonymous
- Boys can say cute stuff flirt with you then ignore but they don't feel bad about it why

Because those boys know they don’t want anything more than a flirtationship or FWB. 

Just keep in mind that not all guys are the same, love bug.

Anonymous
- Her are you okay ? Why are you crying

It’s a lot to say, really. 

Last night, though, I was crying because I found out my grandpa doesn’t even want to see me off to college because he would rather go to his class reunion and see who died. And it makes me feel like my successes and hard work doesn’t matter. But everyone caters to him because they don’t want to upset him. So my day to leave may just be another day that my family is a mess rather than happy and glad I’m doing things with my life.

Anonymous
- Are you okay ?

Ah, I was hoping I could say yes tonight, but oddly enough… No. I’m still not okay.

Anonymous
- I don't think the last message sent so yeah it does feel like I'm in a movie and I'm just like watching everyone live

My advice to you is to stop watching everyone else. Look at yourself, see your potential, all the exciting things you can do! Don’t box yourself in. I’ve noticed over experience that whenever I feel that way, it’s because I’ve set my limits through putting myself down time after time. 

Anonymous
- Why do we let boys use us

We let boys use us because we never see it coming and they say all the right things. It’s not that we want to let them use us… It just, well, happens.

Anonymous
- I know your busy but please answer our questions xx

I’ll answer them now. It should keep me from crying. So yeah.

Anonymous
- I'm alive yet I feel like I'm not living what's the difference if I'm dead

Is it the feeling where you feel like everyone around you is in this life and then there is you, just watching them be busy? Kind of like in movies where the person is standing there and everyone else is walking by?

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Anonymous
- Why do I like a boy who doesn't give a shit about me and uses me and he ignores how can I still like him so much he said all the right things then ignored me like I was nothing I hate him but I love it's driving me crazy he has a god but his not loyal why do I like why doesn't he like me omg

Because he said all the right things. But you need to remember that he knew what you wanted to hear and said them SO he could use you. You deserve better than that. He just wants stuff out of you, he is immature and doesn’t realize what’s in front of him. Cut his ass off. He’ll learn eventually.

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Anonymous
- I really like to be alone like in my holidays I just hang bymyself I hung out with my friends for a while And all I could think about was going home is that bad and I tend not to really like many people is there something wrong with me

Goodness no. I am the same exact way. I’ve gotten more used to going out and actually enjoying it, so you might at some point, too. But I mean, it’s a preference. Don’t think something is wrong with you.

Anonymous
- Iv been depressed for about 4years and I'm sick of hearing it will get better so what I spend my teenage years waiting for it to get better maybe another four years I just want to be happy why is it so hard

I believe a friend if mine commit suicide yesterday. We dont know for sure. But let me tell you that the pain is unbearable. It makes you wish you could change things and think of all the things you could have done differently.

It’s sort of like that now. With your depressed feelings. Imagine all the ways you can change your life for the better. You are so in control. Youre more in control with things than you know. Life will get better. YOU will get better. You just have to work towards it a little.